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posted by dsk on December 4th, 2011 at 12:56AM

>I began to have a sinking feeling that you were up to no good

I asked questions.

>spun a few of the extreme points way out of context and sensationalized it all.

Oh do tell, what's out of context? You suggested the perpetrators (i.e. those that paid for child rape), as described in the scenarios, should NOT be punished.
AM I WRONG?
IS THIS ASSERTION OUT OF LINE WITH WHAT YOU BELIEVE?
AM I BEING UNFAIR HERE?

You can argue semantics and whether your reasoning implies you think it's "ok" but that's irrelevant because even in the best case, you're at such a repugnant extreme position. AND YOU KNOW IT. Because now you're trying to dig yourself out of the hole. Your forte in argument is red herrings and ambiguity, hence my insistence on direct answers.

Maybe you realize how absolutely insane it all sounds when you write it out in black and white. With direct answers standing right there and not hidden in pages of garbage.

>If anyone gave you a "degree" in any respectable institution of thinking, I strongly advise you to give it back, because you don't deserve it.

I'd suggest the same to you, but ...

>Do you, or don't you, think that kids know what is good for them

Are you out of your mind? Of course an 8 year old cannot make a decision to have sex with a 40 year old. If you don't understand why, I can't explain it to you.

>The real question, I feel, is about sex -- is sex a good thing or a bad thing.

No it's not. That's not the question at all. Not even close. There's a fuckin difference between saying a child has sexual feelings (normal), and saying s/he can consent to sex with a 40 year old (fuckin insane).

>This is also why you keep appealing to other people to back you up

Did you not just post an entire thread devoted to finding someone on an anonymous chat service to agree with you? The appeal is for your benefit. Maybe if you see the horror and disgust in other people (especially significant other), maybe you might pause and consider the possibility that YOU'RE WRONG!

>where is your "girlfriend" in all of this

She likes me. She thinks this is unbelievably funny =)

>You say my reasoning takes me to an unethical position -- yet you make absolutely zero arguments to back this statement up.

If you don't understand why reasoning that leads to believe children can consent to sex with middle-aged adults and paying someone to rape a child should leave the payee punishment-free, is insane, then I cannot help you. I cannot   rephrase it in any other way to make it that much clearer. It's like explaining empathy to a sociopath. How would you do it so he understand?

> I do feel bad about the evil perpetrated on the victims of "my" thievery

Oh yes, I do remember this line of reasoning. You can spew venom at anybody who sees nuance in ideology, but you excuse yourself because "you feel bad".

>you're not simply being "mildly off-color and sardonic"

Actually in that case I was. It was supposed to come out funnier than it did. Listen, sometimes a joke falls flat, it happens. I took full blame for it. Your reaction was priceless though.

>Look, Dsk, you angered me with your intellectual ineptitude here.

Look, Dennis, you didn't anger me. It takes time with you. It took me time to train you before. It took forever to explain to you, for example, why nationalization in Cuba was wrong. It took forever - but in the end you got it.

But you do have to understand one thing. You don't have good grasp of logic and reason. You're missing all nuance when it comes viewing the world. What your brain is trying to do is put everything neatly in box, wrap it in a bow, and call it a day. Things are more complicated. A side-effect of this is that you have to sideline your own hypocrisies and inconsistencies - you have to do that else you would not be able to survive. This all results in your deranged and tortured thinking. Fix it.


>and as a friend

Hah. We're not friends. Listening to your insane ravings on being subjugated for years (YEARS!) was/is - urgh, nauseating. The way you embraced playing the victim and culture of victimhood is off-putting. And you decided to become a total dick overnight a few years ago.

Anyway, the difference, friend, between me and everyone else at this moment, is that everyone else will go no further than make fun of you behind your back ("here goes crazy dennis yet again") - but I'll call you on your bullshit (notice nobody else does?). That's a service I will provide for you.

>You are an incredibly arrogant person

You're the third person to tell me that in the last 30 days. There may be some truth to this =)
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posted by c4r0lyn on December 5th, 2011 at 11:04PM

You have a new girlfriend? Congrats.

B-)  

Make it four.

posted by dennisn on December 4th, 2011 at 9:14AM

The reason why you spun things out of context is because you took one extreme and salacious point out of a general principle of ethics -- which you still haven't taken a position on. The general principle was: "only the person who directly commits a crime is legally guilty." IF YOU DISAGREE WITH THIS PRINCIPLE, HOW WOULD YOU DETERMINE GUILT OR COMPLICITY?? I also provided extreme examples to expose the absurdity of your implied belief -- would pro-eugenics scientists be considered complicit enablers??

I don't find this position of mine repugnant at all -- I'm actually quite proud of it -- the fact that I can set my personal tastes aside in light of true justice. The real crime and the thing we should be focusing all our attention on is the *actual rape and rapist*! Your hyper-focusing on secondary details is quite disturbing.

So, you'll notice again that, for the question: "Do you, or don't you, think that kids know what is good for them" -- you not only evaded, but you indirectly answered "no", and then you said "I can't explain it to you." So, clearly you are not mature enough or not capable enough to have this discussion.

Regarding the question of sex, so, I guess you're actually saying sex is a good thing? I mean actual sex, not sexual feelings. At what age does it start being a bad thing? 18? 17? 16?... And why exactly does it become bad / dangerous / something to be forbidden? And, if you're so concerned about the inability of the kid to give informed consent (to a benign pleasurable act?? or a malicious hurtful act??), what if they did it under informed adult supervision, and both enjoyed it -- what then??

The reason I asked omegle was actually to expose the repugnant ignorance and reactionism of the general population -- it was intended to show you who your allies were -- ignorant and retarded people.

Your girlfriend thinks that calling random women "whores" is unbelievably funny? Have you ever done it in real life? Have you ever called her that? Why not? (The fact that you still insist you were simply being funny is disturbingly delusional.)

You then proudly repeat how you cannot explain your position. So, let me repeat the scenario, and tell me exactly where the problem is: a child wants to have sex with an adult... the adult reluctantly agrees... they get the parent's permission... there is no pain... both enjoy the experience and have fun... condoms were used, and an environment of respect was had.

I'm not sure what you mean by "nuance" or "things are complicated". My guess is it's Orwell-speak for "accepting evil, because I handwave it's probably necessary, or because I personally don't think it's so bad". (I'm not sure what exactly you mean by me not being able to see the nuances in the world. For example, I am perfectly aware that Statist doctors save lives, and do a lot of good. I never said they were perfectly black and evil. All I say is that the way they get their money is black and evil. Do you disagree?)

The thing that happened a few years ago, was me simply being fed up with ignorant and bad so-called friends not listening to reason, but persistently promoting their illogical evil brainwashings. Do you think it was dickish of me to lash out at them? How long should I have given them, before making a stand? Should I have remained friends with them (people who promote violence and ignorance) for the rest of my life, in the name of tolerance? (You were far less wrong than them, but you still were/are -- your failure to understand my arguments against imaginary property, and against minarchy, for example. So, at least with these two examples, you were promoting very real violence against me. But you still think /I/ was the one being a dick?)

You again casually say I am being hypocritical and inconsistent -- yet provide ZERO reasoning.

(Oh, you also missed a LOT of direct questions that I asked you. Whereas I answer every single one of your questions.)

posted by Dumb nigger on August 2nd, 2023 at 5:08PM

"Your girlfriend thinks that calling random women "whores" is unbelievably funny? Have you ever done it in real life? Have you ever called her that? Why not? (The fact that you still insist you were simply being funny is disturbingly delusional.)"
What? Didn’t you call me that every other time you were irritated? Jesus, kill yourself. You don’t deserve love or respect. Fuck you. Fuck your sister. Fuck your site. Fuck your friends. Fuck all that time I had known you and had happily given you my emotional commitment and love. You need to die because I deeply fucking hate you. Fuck your GirLfRieNdS and all the women you think will fuck your bald dick. I will hate you for the rest of my fucking life. You’re horrible and fucked up and don’t know wtf to do with somebody who loves you. You’re pathetic as fuck!

posted by dsk on December 8th, 2011 at 7:43PM

>he reason why you spun things out of context

Not out of context. You answered directly.

>I don't find this position of mine repugnant at all -- I'm actually quite proud of it --

I know. Everyone around you does though, and you don't understand why. I can't explain it to you so it makes sense to you.

>Do you, or don't you, think that kids know what is good for them" -- you not only evaded

Evaded? Are you serious? I think you should assume my beliefs on this view are be quite typical. So don't be a retard.

Of course kids don't know what's good for them. If you want to a general statement, this is it. Here's the qualification: Forcing kids to do things is measured by their age, and class of thing we're talking about. So a toddler doesn't know anything at all, practically, and everything is decided for him/her. As they get older, what they cannot decide on diminishes. This is true legally and ethically. When a "
kid" hits 16-18, he's essential free to do whatever he wants.

One of the things that is universally agreed upon is that an eight year-old does not have the capacity to decide on "
consensual" sex with a 40 year-old. Not by biology (bodies are not ready). Not through any psychological study. And not anecdotally where every case of sex between such a child and a middle-age adult was incredibly traumatic to the child.

You arguing this, makes you look like either a pedophile or in the best case, a fuckin idiot. Don't take my word for it, ask your girlfriend - the one that's closest to you. Does she agree?

I tried to take the best case. I tried to reason that your assumptions are faulty if they lead you to this conclusion.

See how nice I am. I didn't assume you're a pedophile, just a retard.

>what if they did it under informed adult supervision, and both enjoyed it -- what then??

You're an idiot.

>Your girlfriend thinks that calling random women "whores" is unbelievably funny?

Get.over.it. God. You just won't let this go.

I change my mind and rescind any apology given. It was funny. Your girlfriend tried to get into a trivial photo-contest late. You're the gate-keeper of contest entrance and you made the rules, and you're also sleeping with her. I made the humorous connection that she's paying you to skirt the rules by sleeping with you. That was all. Looking back at it, it's funny, because it's so ridiculous. And of course I support our working ladies.  

There. Happy? Are you going to shut the fuck about it already? Like Jesus, it was a month ago. I barely remember yesterday.


>All I say is that the way they (doctors) get their money is black and evil. Do you disagree?)

I'll answer this way: "
The way they get money is not anymore or less evil than the way a squeegee kid working at car wash with subsidized water makes his money". I can maybe be persuaded that the way they get their money is black and evil, but then I'd be forced to say the same about everyone, and then "evil" becomes meaningless.

Besides that. Here's the nuance.
1) Doctors in Canada are not allowed to get paid by any means other than by the state (i.e. the state writes them a cheque)
2) Doctors in the US are paid through private means. Doctors in the US make, on average, 2-3 times more than doctors in Canada.

So it looks like Doctors in Canada, are actually getting shortchanged. The money they get is roughly half (or even a third) of what the free market would pay them. So even under your definition of evil (where everyone is evil) - it's not quite clear. They're getting paid by the state .. yes.. But they would be making way more under the free market, but they aren't allowed. So they're getting fucked (by any definition of fucked). You on the other hand are getting a sweet deal. Chances are you're propped up by state defined minimum wage.


>You again casually say I am being hypocritical and inconsistent -- yet provide ZERO reasoning.

You purposely moved to the most socialist province in the country, one that not only steals from its own citizens but also steals from the citizens of other provinces to the tune of billions.

You generate funds from state subsidized resources and yet you blame everyone else for your personal subjugation (well, unless they pay meaningless lip-service to your ideology).

Nobody believes what you believe so you arbitrarily pick and choose who you're friends with. Still associate with lots of socialists, dontcha.

You're on Facebook.

Honestly, I can keep going. A major issue is that you're not that intelligent, but you don't know it. I'm sure you can imagine a scenario where one distills an idea to its simplest components, but if a debate opponent still doesn't understand, there isn't much else one can do. I don't know how you fix that Dennis.

posted by dennisn on December 8th, 2011 at 11:52PM

Yes out of context. I was especially careful to explain the logic and reasoning behind the answers, since the issue clearly seems to provoke mindless brainwashing-reactions in people. You have yet to criticize the logic and reasoning. Instead you consistently seem to want to incite that very same mindless reactivity, by cutting out the explanation, and posting only the reaction-inducing bit on the front page.

Why are you still avoiding the questions? There were a few important ones I asked you, *even in that first paragraph you're quoting here*? One of them was in caps-lock too! (I'm honestly curious if you're aware of your evasion, or if your brainwashing is operating on a subsconscious level?)

Regarding kids knowing what they want -- again, you *did* evade the question -- you instead chose to jump to your own question about sex (which was not what I was asking about). So, again, please answer the question -- to paraphrase: "what capacity do kids have to choose what they want? none? some? full?"

For example, I very clearly did not want to go to statist-kindergarten. It was incredibly traumatic. I said no. I cried profusely. I still have vivid traumatic memories of it. Do you think it was okay to force me to go? Did I have any capacity in that case to judge whether I wanted to go or not?

Another example: I loved reading the books that I had at home (not from school), and playing with my toys. Do you think I was capable of judging what I wanted? Or should other people's books and toys have been imposed on me, because I was incapable of choosing?

I'm fully aware that the younger the kid is, the less knowledgeable they are, and thus the less able they are to make choices on their own. So, I don't disagree that adult supervision is necessary, to prevent them from signing bad contracts, drinking heroin, and doing other bad things. So, the real question comes down to the "class of thing" as you put it. That is, sexuality -- not necessarily sex. If penetration is your only problem, then what are your thoughts on non-penetrative child sexuality?

Your parrotting of state propaganda about "magically hitting 16-18" is complete rubbish. The chick Roman Polanski slept with was 13, she was very mature for her age -- she honestly looked 18ish too -- and she consented. There is no magic age. The only question is: is sexuality good or bad -- is there malice and pain, or mutual-respect and pleasure?

Your knowledge of child psychology is *sorely* lacking. Children are sexual from an incredibly early age, arguably since birth (or before). But definitely after a few years, probably 5ish they begin to explore and masturbate -- a small percentage to be sure -- but that percentage steadily increases after every year. I began 8ish -- and that was coming from a completely repressed anti-sex environment.

Your knowledge of anecdotal evidence on this matter is also *sorely* lacking and dangerously propagandized. All you know is what our anti-sex culture has let you know. You clearly haven't bothered investigating on your own. Because if you did, you'd soon discover positive cases. Your zeal to jump to a conclusion you are clearly incompetent to make is frightening, don't you think?

You also avoided the question about "doing it" enjoyably under adult supervision -- resorting to your usual tactic of reactionary anti-intellectual evasion on this matter. If it's just penetration you have a problem with, then let me rephrase: "would you be okay with parents respectfully teaching and exploring their child's sexuality, if the child is having a good time, and is one of those early-explorers, which are well-documented in studies? for example, having the parents teach their kids how to masturbate properly, and enjoyably. acceptable or not?"

(I don't want to digress, but you also avoided my question about your girlfriend and "whore"-calling. But, I'll just assume she didn't find that particular behavior of yours "unbelievably funny." Perhaps she found your other noxious behaviour funny :s. Also, I still think there was a lot more malice behind your demeanor. How many girls (girls you don't really know, no less) did you call "whores" in real life, just to be funny? Was my girlfriend the first?)

(Regarding the doctors, and squeegee kids, the real question is given the choice, would they continue to use violence or not. (Also, I wouldn't jump to any conclusions about what the free market price of medical services is -- the medical market (especially) is so infested with bureaucracy and coercion, it's impossible to say. But this is an irrelevant correction. The only question that's worth asking is the one I just asked -- it's the one that differentiates who is complicit in the crime, and who is being violently oppressed.))

(Regarding my alleged hypocrisy and inconsistancy, I thought you were referring to this issue. We've addressed those other issues you mentioned before, and I don't want to digress further. We can get back to that later, or in another thread if you insist.)

posted by dennisn on December 10th, 2011 at 12:28PM

How are we doing on this thread? I'm pretty sure corrections, and possibly apologies are in order? It's amazing what a little thinking can do -- to change knee-jerk reflexes.

Dsk doesn't do apologies. by c4r0lyn on December 10th, 2011 at 8:44PM.

posted by dennisn on December 7th, 2011 at 10:51PM

We're still waiting for you to answer the questions. And, hopefully, to actually state your position on the matter. It was you who re-opened this can of worms, you know. (And re-threaded it on the front page, no less.)

posted by dsk on December 8th, 2011 at 7:44PM

No worries. I got busy. Was in Chicago. I know it means a lot to you, so i wrote a response.