posted by jenni on January 6th, 2015 at 3:42PM
I think that is too conditional for my tastes. Yes it is hard and painful to sit back and watch people self-destruct and know that no matter what I say or do they will not change without intrinsic motivation, but for various reasons certain people have gotten under my skin and letting them go because they are afraid is just not my style. Empathy and trying to understand where they are coming from is. It ain't easy but the positive emotions they give me outweigh the negative ones, so as long as that scale stays that way I stay :)
