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posted by Riyaffs on September 22nd, 2022 at 9:45AM

Picture this. Your abusive, violent dad is now 55. You are prolly 25. You were abused a lot growing up. Your mom knows, obviously. You're not sure if she's ashamed of herself for letting any of that happen. (We'll deal with her soon). So basically your mom is guilty of supporting violence and evil. And your dad is guilty of being violent and evil and supporting the same. But do they act guilty? Or do they act self-righteous? The difference is very important. Try asking your previously abusive parents if they're guilty. It's very important to know.
How would you feel if you had to lie everyday for the rest of your life? Which is exactly what your family is doing. Your parents, your siblings, and if you're unlucky and broken, your bf/gf and your friends too. How? By assisting abusers/sinners in their lies. Are you doing the same? Lying about committing crimes is fucked up, isn't it? Being a remorseless liar and sinner is worse than sinning. It shows that you don't care about justice. Perhaps committing a crime also shows you don't care about justice.
So the deal with your shameless, evil family is that they don't give a fuck about hurting you and other innocent people. The self-righteous behaviour that your abuser will show you and society is obviously him/her bullshitting everyone, because they don't even themselves believe that violence is okay. Nobody thinks that violence towards somebody innocent is okay. But then your lying fuck of a dad or mom or whoever the fuck else, says that hitting you was somehow very much justified (if they're not already denying ever hitting a kid). And this fucking lie does not go ridiculed by society! And why is that? Because the state is made of children hitters. And liars, obviously. Nothing that keeps the state going strong will ever be punished. The state doesn't believe in morality, it believes in power, doesn't matter how it gets it. No one who believes in the state (violence) will care about your truth, or you.

Sooo, what are you gonna do at 25, with your 55 yo parents? It's tempting to want to act along with them just so you shallowly feel like you have a family which has your back. Lol. It doesn't. Unless your parents explicitly tell you they're sorry for hurting a child. And that violence of the state/government/society disgusts them and angers them. If not, then they probably don't give a fuck if you died. In fact, they're actively killing you by pushing you to live their delusions/lies. When you live a lie(somethingthat isn't real/doesn't exist), YOU don't exist. They're busy aiding the psycho, evil state in its endless crimes towards people like you. You sad orphan. Don't worry, living as a lying victim like your parents do, is very exhausting and it's slow suicide too, to be evil and a liar and having no hope of experiencing love or any genuine connection or a genuine reconciliation. So they are suffering for being criminals, just not enough. But it's still something.

Delivering justice, though, is your duty. And a way of doing that is by abandoning them liars and criminals (your "family")and not aiding them in the lies that they live. Forcing them to live the truth is a way of seeking justice for yourself and everyone that they hurt. But acting along and living their lies? That's something you should be punished for. Because you're becoming part of the mob that supports all the hurt that's caused by the state and your criminal parents. Be very careful about what you say to your families, be careful about who you engage with. Every day is your chance of being moral. Every day you wake up, you are getting a chance to seek justice, tell the truth, be free and be loved. So at 20 something, put an end to people LYING to you. You were born to exist, not play evil games and accommodate insanity.
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posted by dennisn on September 22nd, 2022 at 1:44PM

> But do they act guilty? Or do they act self-righteous? Try asking your previously abusive parents if they're guilty.
Mine act just as self-righteous as the day they did the assaults. Time / old age doesn't automatically fix anything. Usually they deny they did it, or rather, completely avoid the topic, as they do with so many other topics. But this evasion is an admission of guilt - they aren't really fooling anyone. It's like a robber who avoids going to the store he robbed. He knows he's guilty and a piece of shit.

> But then your lying fuck of a dad or mom or whoever the fuck else, says that hitting you was somehow very much justified
If you ask them why, they won't be able to answer. These fucks only live on the surface ... on super thin surface lies ... on fragile delusion bubbles that can easily pop.

> (if they're not already denying ever hitting a kid)
Our parents are soooo similar :p.

> It's tempting to want to act along with them
This reminds me of how ponzi schemes and other scams work. It appeals to people's inner longing. Most of the work of the scammer is really done by the "victim" - they want the delusion to be true so badly.

posted by Riyaffs on September 22nd, 2022 at 2:09PM

Good point about the Ponzi schemes, but this is actually sadder because we really crave families and affection. It hurts more when your family scams you